In essence they'd have a hard time being social with women because their mother might've scared them and that's the only image they've had of women, so now they're afraid to interact with females in general. They'd probably have a hard time talking to women, understanding women (despite even normal men having that issue.), and many other things. This would be because they're mad and resentful at their mother for how she treated them and so they probably just use women as their way of handling it unfortunatelyĪnother image could be the man is scared of women to an almost unstable degree. Perhaps wanting to control them or demand constant attention and loyalty from them. Other men may go down a more violent path and may physically beat women or be more misogynistic towards them. This would really be because they lacked a caring woman in their life so now they seek it. Constantly taking care of them and constantly being the responsibility of their partner. Some of our behaviours emanates from the wounded inner child that is screaming for healing.Some men will expect/want a partner to pamper and essentially BE their Mom for them. It important to diagnosed yourself correctly than thinking that’s who you are. I believe in therapy, and if you can’t afford it yet, there are tons of resources available to manage some of these behaviours. Just because you suffer from mommy issues doesn’t mean it cannot be corrected. She believes in equality, and want to defend little girls. They would rather watch football or play football, than wear pink dresses and plan a tea party with her dolls.įeminist views: She grows up into a woman that holds a lot of feminist views she doesn’t want to be a mother or a housewife. They are tomboys: These girls have a lot of male companions. They have a hard exterior because their mothers never gave them the opportunity to express their emotions.
They have this “I don’t care” attitude - when they in fact care. Not having many female friends: So, girls with daddy issues always have a lot of female friends, however girls that suffer mommy issues have at least three solid friends.įinding it hard to express their emotions directly: Apparently, girls that have this issue are unable to express their feelings. Sensitiveness: Daughters that were often criticised by their mothers will often be hurt emotionally and grow up to become sensitive adults. If your relationship with you mommy is wonky, you may struggle with connecting with people, especially romantically. Inability to establish an emotion connection: Our first love is God, but our mother is literally the first human introduction we would have to love. If you had a domineering, overbearing or controlling mother then it is very likely that you'd become insecure. You are insecure: If your mother didn’t praise you for your accomplishments, you'd end up being an insecure adult. You have trust issues, and they are major Some of the signs that you have mommy issues are: There isn’t abandonment or secrets or guilt-tripping. In a healthy mother-daughter relationship, there is confidence, harmony and an acceptance of personality - nobody is trying to change anybody. They usually date girls that are older or nurturing. Men also suffer from mummy issues which is why some of them look for relationships where they can be mothered, or babied. The signs are very subtle, which why we must pay close attention to our behaviour and curb these unwanted traits before it becomes damaging. Thing is, she is totally doing it out of love… I think… and hope… however the recipient cannot see this - all they see is anger, mood swings and intimidation.Ī lot of females suffer from mommy issues and do not even know it. She may be fully present but just have a poor system of communicating with her child - perhaps her love language is to yell or smack, or just confuse the poor kids by reacting on every mood she is on.
Mommy issues doesn’t necessarily mean that the mother is absent. Now… “mommy issues” has been completely ignored, meanwhile tons of women-sized girls and men-sized boys suffer from it.īut what exactly is mommy issues? Well, I'll explain it from my own understanding, and I believe there are different definitions to it. Of course this happens in a case where the father was absent or just inadequate. However, boys or sons do have daddy issues. Society has strictly focused on daddy issues, limiting it to father-daughter relationship.
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